Why Wedding Photography Matters (because regret isn't a vibe)

Why Wedding Photography matters.

So, you’re getting married? Yay, congratulations! You’ve probably spent hours agonizing over napkin colors, debating whether you really need a donut wall (you do), and wondering if it’s socially acceptable to seat your ex and your great-aunt Agnes at the same table just for the s**its & giggles!

But let me ask you something. Have you put the same amount of thought into choosing your wedding photographer?

If your plan is to just “get a few snaps” or have your mate Dave do it because he “has a decent camera,” then buckle up, my friend, because I’m about to save your wedding memories from absolute disaster.

Your Wedding Day Will Be a Blur (Literally and Emotionally)

You know that weird feeling when you wake up after an amazing dream and can’t remember the details? That’s your wedding day.

People always say, “Enjoy every moment! It goes by so fast!” And you nod politely, thinking, Yeah, yeah, I’ve got a whole day—how fast can it really go?

Well, let me tell you: blink, and it’s over.

One moment, you’re sipping prosecco in matching robes, casually debating if you should have gone for the bigger dress train. The next, you’re dancing like nobody’s watching (except, unfortunately, everyone is watching). In between? A whirlwind of vows, confetti, hugs, happy tears, and your best friend panicking because one of the bridesmaids has gone AWOL!

And here’s the kicker: You won’t remember half of it. Not because you weren’t present, but because your brain will be running on adrenaline, nerves, and possibly a little too much champagne.

Your photographer is basically your memory bank. Without them, you won’t have any evidence that your day actually happened—except for a wicked hangover, sore feet and a horribly long bill from the open bar.

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Good photography makes you look effortlessly cool & beautiful

Let’s be honest. Wedding days are beautiful, but they’re also sweaty, emotional, and slightly chaotic. You need someone who can capture the magic while strategically avoiding the moment your veil gets caught in a door or when Uncle Bob drops an entire plate of canapés down his suit. (although I’d totally capture those moments too!)

A great photographer doesn’t just take photos; they make you look like the best, most radiant version of yourself—like you just stepped out of a bridal magazine instead of sprinting to the altar because you were almost late.

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These Photos are forever (so maybe don’t trust a guy with ‘a decent camera’)

Your flowers will wilt. Your cake will be eaten. Your dress will probably end up in a box under your bed. But your wedding photos? They’re the one thing that will last.

One day, your grandkids will look at those pictures and decide whether you were effortlessly elegant or deeply unhinged. And honestly, if you let a well-meaning friend with zero experience take your photos, there’s a good chance the images will look like a blurry Bigfoot sighting.

The Wrong Photographer Can Ruin Everything.
Imagine this: You hire someone cheap who takes three weeks to respond to an email and mysteriously only shows a few shots from weddings on their website. On the day, they show up late, don’t have a plan and no idea what you want, and somehow manage to take 200 photos of the wedding arch but zero of your first kiss. And I have heard so many horror stories, these things happen! (I have actually written another blog on HOW to choose your photographer, I can highly recommend reading that too!)

A great wedding photographer? They’ll be like a photography ninja -blending into the background, making you feel like a total legend, charming your guests, capturing the real moments, and somehow making your entire family look amazing… even the ones who showed up in very bold outfit choices.

Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime thing (hopefully). Make sure you have amazing photos to spark memories and remind you how great it really was.

Final thought….

Wedding photography isn’t just about getting “nice pictures.” It’s about capturing the feeling of the day, the people you love, and the story you’ll tell for years to come. So, use a professional who gets that – someone who makes you laugh, puts you at ease, and has the skills to make sure your memories are preserved in the most beautiful way possible.

And if you’re still not sure who to pick… well, I might know someone.

Wink

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